IS IT A SECOND HAND EMOTION? I DON'T THINK SO. I THINK WHEN THE LOVING IS GREAT (REAL LOVE) THEN SEX IS ICING ON THE CAKE ...EVEN IF ITS NOT THE BEST SEX. KNOWING THAT YOU'RE IN MY CORNER AND YOU DON'T WANT TO LEAVE, KNOWING THAT IM THE ONLY ONE FOR YOU AND VISE VERSA - WELL THAT GOES ALONG WAY. YOU MAY SAY NO, IF SO THEN I SAY YOU REALLY AIN'T EXPERIENCED TRUE LOVE.
REAL LOVE FEELS GREAT! BUT ITS MOST PLEASURABLE WHEN SHARED BY TWO. SO WHILE YOU CAN SEX ME UNTIL I'M TITILLATED TO THE Nth DEGREE, WITHOUT REAL LOVE, AFTER THE GREAT SEX, IM EMPTY AGAIN. SO WHAT, YOU GONNA SEX ME CONSTANTLY? OF COURSE NOT, LOL.
BUT YOU CAN STILL LOVE ME LONG TIME :) EVEN WHEN THE SEX IS OVER. SURFING THE WEB, I FOUND THE FOLLOWING VIDEO "DEFINITION OF LOVE" BY ANDREW LANDON, HERE ARE SOME OF THE LYRICS:
'It makes us crazy. It makes reality invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn't cross. Because love isn't about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It's about scaring the shit out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting and all the tears and all the uncertainty is worth it. And it's a hell of a lot better, than being 100% happy without someone to show us that there is a world of a difference between feeling 'happy' and feeling whole.'
SEE, A LOT GOES INTO LOVING, NOT JUST SEX. AS ANDREW LANDON SAYS, "IT MAKES US CRAZY" NOT THE TYPE THAT'S GONNA LAND US IN JAIL, BUT THAT CRAZY FEELING THAT SAYS I DON'T CARE, I WANT YOU, YOU'RE WORTH IT, WE'RE WORTH IT -- THAT PEEPS MAKES FOR HOT SEX!!!
BUT HEY THESE ARE JUST MY OPINIONS SPRINKLED WITH A FEW A FACTS. YOU BE THE JUDGE. DOES YOUR SEX LIFE NEED A DOSE OF LOVING? OR IS YOUR LOVE LIFE NEED INJECTIONS OF GREAT SEX? WHATEVER YOU NEED, I THINK ITS JUST A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE IT HAPPENS :)
BESIDES WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE LOVED :)
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