SO FIRST UP, I WANT TO KNOW, WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? - THE IT BEING SEX. HMM, TINA SUNG ABOUT IT, WEEZY SANG, 'COULDN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOVE', AND AL GREEN SAID 'LOVE & HAPPINESS, MAKE YOU WANNA DO WRONG, MAKE YOU WANNA DO RIGHT' SO AGAIN, WAZUP WITH LOVE & SEX? OBVIOUSLY WE CAN HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER, BUT ARE THEY BETTER WHEN DEALT WITH SEPARATELY? OR DO THEY ENHANCE EACH OTHER WHEN JOINED TOGETHER?
PERSONALLY, I THINK EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED BY THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE. BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT NOT EVERYONE DEFINES LOVE THE SAME WAY. SOME THINK BUYING THEM LOTS OF STUFF MEANS YOU LOVE THEM. SOME PREFER YOU SPENDING EVERY WAKING HOUR WITH THEM. SOME THINK LOVE MEANS PUTTING THE OTHER PERSON FIRST. AND THEN SOME PEOPLE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT LOVE IS OR EVEN WHAT THEY WANT FROM ANOTHER PERSON WHO SAYS THEY LOVE THEM.
LET ME SAY THIS, THINGS DO NOT DEFINE LOVE. YOU CAN GIVE ANYBODY EVERYTHING THEY'VE EVER WANTED, AND THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOU LOVE THEM. THAT'S NOT GOING TO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL LOVED NECESSARILY. AND WHAT IF I ALREADY HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT OR NEED? HOW ARE YOU GOING TO SHOW YOUR LOVE FOR ME THEN?
MERRIAM-WEBSTER DEFINES LOVE IN SOME OF THE FOLLOWING WAYS: 1) UNSELFISH LOYAL AND BENEVOLENT CONCERN FOR THE GOOD OF ANOTHER; 1) A FEELING OF STRONG OR CONSTANT AFFECTION FOR A PERSON; 3) AN ATTRACTION THAT INCLUDES SEXUAL DESIRE: THE STRONG AFFECTION FELT BY PEOPLE WHO HAVE A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP
NUMBERS 1 & 2 ABOVE WOULD SEEM TO BE OBVIOUS TO MOST, BUT SOME WILL SETTLE FOR #3 ALONE. BUT AS FAR AS LOVE & SEX GOES I THINK ALL THREE ABOVE ARE REQUIRED FOR THE PERFECT RECIPE.
YOU CAN GIVE ME THE BEST SEX IN THE WORLD AND I CAN STILL FEEL UNLOVED. WITHOUT YOUR LOYALITY AND YOU MAKING ME FEEL LIKE IM THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE WORLD, SEX IS JUST SEX. AND ITS TRUE, SOME PPL JUST WANT SEX - SKIP THE LOVE, ALL THE SWEET STICKY STUFF, ALL THE PINK HEART SHAPE CLOUDS FLOATING IN THE AIR. SOME JUST WANT RAW SEX ...WHICH IS OK.
SEX IS FUN. 30 MINUTES OF SEX CAN BURN OVER 85 CALORIES. SEX IS A GOOD STRESS RELIEVER. SEX WHEN DONE REGULARLY CAN BE LINKED TO HIGHER LEVELS OF THE ANTIBODY IMMUNOGLOBULIN A, WHICH MAY PROTECT US FROM COMMON COLDS BY BOOSTING THE IMMUNE SYSTEM. HAVING SEX KEEPS YOUR BRAIN SHARP.
SO YOU CAN SEE THERE ARE BENEFITS OF HAVING SEX. BUT WHAT'S THERE NOT TO LOVE ABOUT LOVE?