The Voice Issue 6, Autumn 2011 | Page 22

Chatterbox Head and Neck Cancer Support Group Getting together with the good people at the Chatterbox Club in Bristol is a lot of fun. Partly that’s because this is such an eclectic group and members have a lot of different interests. Partly it’s because it’s such an informal group. But mostly it’s because these people obviously enjoy sharing each other’s company. There’s always a lot of laughter at a Chatterbox meeting. A lot of the credit for that has to go to long-time chairman and co-founder, Tony. Tony helped set up the Chatterbox Club twelve years ago, and has been chairing its meetings ever since. He’s very modest about that, suggesting that it’s a role he’s fallen into. But he’s come up with a format that really works. Chatterbox meetings are very informal. There’s no organising committee, no set itinerary and no meeting minutes – just lots of opportunities for members to, well, chat. And that’s what they do best. Why club meetings are so important One of the great things about the Chatterbox Club is that it feels really close knit – like this group of people has been together for years. But that’s not the case. Like any club, the membership fluctuates. New members join up regularly and it’s really inspiring to see how quickly they’re welcomed into the club. In no time at all, they’ll feel right at home here. Each meeting gives every attendee the chance to talk about their month and discuss anything – good or bad – that has happened. There’s a real feeling of support and togetherness here which makes 22 THE VOICE | Autumn 2011 confiding in others very easy. It’s something laryngectomy groups do very well, and Chatterbox group members know it’s a key part in the rehabilitation process. We saw a great example of that at the meeting we attended in February 2011. A new member, Peter, was making his second visit to the club, just five weeks after his laryngectomy surgery. Amazingly, that means his first visit was only five days after his operation! Peter says he’s feeling, “on top of the world”. So what helped him make that huge adjustment so quickly? Chatterbox Club members are nothing less than devoted in their efforts to smooth the transition from pre to post lary life. Many of them visit the wards to talk to people about to undergo surgery – and it really helps.