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The Valley Catholic October 7, 2014 community 19 136 Questions…are you prepared? By Kathy Fanger Parish outreach Coordinator This Sunday’s first reading proclaims: “On this mountain the Lord of hosts will provide for all peoples a feast of rich food and choice wines. He will destroy death forever. The Lord God will wipe away the tears from every face.” Isaiah 25: 6-8 Embracing End of Life with Faith When we are so confident in the Lord’s promise to us of eternal life, then what a gift - a legacy - it is to our family to make a final statement of faith by planning our funeral, paying for it, and documenting our wishes for Catholic funeral services, perhaps even the songs and scripture readings. Are you aware that there are over 136 questions to answer when a person dies? At the time of death, our own - or that of our parents or loved ones, if funeral details have not been discussed, documented and planned for, then we, or our loved ones, face the anxiety of countless decisions and expenses to face alone or to be agreed upon. All this stress can pull us, and the people we love, from focusing on the fuller picture – gratitude to God for a life well-lived, now being welcomed into Heaven, and the promise of one day being reunited. Why not gift your family by having all your plans and documents in place now, while you able to restfully make decisions and communicate them clearly. Why choose a Catholic Cemetery? Catholic Cemeteries provide sacred burial grounds among fellow believers in the resurrection. It is a natural choice having lived one’s life journey in faith through the sacraments of Baptism, Eucharist, Confirmation and often Matrimony and Anointing of the Sick. Our loved ones and others who share our faith are able to visit, pray, and be reminded that one day we will be together again. Monthly memorial masses and special masses throughout the year help to gather the community in prayer and remembrance of their loved ones. Who can be buried in a Catholic Cemetery? *Catholics and their immediate family members, regardless of their faith or denomination. *Christians –in the spirit of Christian unity, those members of other Christian churches for whom we share a common understanding of baptism and with the approval of their pastor or minister. *Persons who have previously obtained burial rights. *Persons with a demonstrable connection to the Catholic community (ie. attended Catholic school, employee of the Church). Our Catholic Cemeteries staff is available to meet with you at no charge to listen to your wishes, describe burial options, and provide a tour. We will explain pricing, no interest payment Calvary Catholic Cemetery celebrates To make an appointment, call 650-428-3730 or contact www.ccdsj.org Our Catholic Cemeteries include: • Gate of Heaven Catholic Cemetery, Los Altos • Calvary Cemetery, San Jose • St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Milpitas plans and discount opportunities, all utilizing today’s prices. We also offer a more comprehensive Catholic Funeral Plan TM. Planning takes less time than you might think - about an hour and a half. You may put property on hold for 2-3 weeks while making a final decision. Give the gift of peace of mind to yourself and your loved ones by planning now. Catholic Cemeteries offers free workshops in parishes throughout the diocese in Planning Your Christian Funeral, Advance Directives, Estate Planning, and Questions at the End of Life-A Catholic Perspective. For more information, or to host a free workshop in your parish, contact Kathy Fanger at 650-428-3730 x214 or [email protected]. OCT. 24-26 INTERFAITH SPIRITUALITY Fr. Tom Bonacci, CP OCT. 25 YOUNG ADULTS RETREAT Paula Jenkins and Team NOV. 8 THE POWER OF GRACE David Richo, Ph.D., M.F.T. NOV. 15 INEQUALITY AND CREATION Rev. Steve Harms and Team NOV. 21-23 GRIEF RETREAT Fr. Padraig Greene PO Box 767 • Danville, CA 94526 925-837-9141 • www.sandamiano.org 5 Good Reasons to Pre-Plan Your Funeral Día de los Muertos Day of the Dead Saturday, October 25, 2014 11am-3pm Calvary Catholic Cemetery, 2650 Madden Avenue, San Jose in association with Hispanic Chamber of Commerce Silicon Valley Join us for a cultural and spiritual celebration! This event is FREE and open to the public! • Ritual, Music, and Dance • Face Painting and children’s crafts • A community altar for attendees to place their photos and memorabilia • Food, art, books, and crafts available for sale Sponsors Catholic Cemeteries of the Diocese of San Jose will NOT be hosting All Souls Day Mass on November 2nd because it is a Sunday. We encourage you to attend Mass with your Parish Community. Lift the financial burden from your loved ones during their time of grief. 2 Gather family support as they help you through making difficult decisions. 3 Ensure all personal records are in order. 4 Peace of mind knowing you can protect your family from additional stress. 5 For more information about the event or to participate as a vendor, artist or performer please contact [email protected] or 408-258-2940 1 Receive the funeral your life deserves. Call us to learn about the Catholic Funeral Plan™ License #0I36007 Here to serve you. www.ccdsj.org Gate of Heaven Cemetery • 22555 Cristo Rey Drive, Los Altos, CA 94024 • (650) 428-3730 Calvary Cemetery • 2650 Madden Avenue, San Jose, CA 95116 • (408) 258-2940 St. John the Baptist Cemetery • 651 Old Piedmont Road, Milpitas, CA 95035 • (408) 258-2940 www.dsj.org