The SpecialMoms Parenting Magazine Issue 5 | Page 31

Understanding Why Planning For
Your Child’s Future Is Crucial

By Miriam Slozberg

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henever parents of children with special needs think about the future for their child, many become
very uncomfortable and scared. As a result, many parents put off future planning for their child with
special needs because of fearing what they may believe is the worst. I have come across many mothers
who cannot stand the idea of their disabled children having to spend the rest of their lives in group
homes. Sure, you want to hope for the best outcome possible. You absolutely want to believe that the outcome for
your child will be positive. However, at the same time you also need to be realistic. If your child has a cognitive or
neurological disability like autism, there is a very high chance that he or she will not be 100% independent- especially
if the child is extremely impacted. I realize it can be a very bitter reality for parents to accept. Especially for those who
had dreams for their kids.
Due to lack of planning, many parents who have disabled children that have reached their 18th birthday are
in trouble. There is very little help for parents with adul