The SpecialMoms Parenting Magazine Issue 5 | Page 15

I understand you are a Special Education Advocate. Can you explain to us what that entails and how long did it take for you to get your certification? behalf of special needs children and their families. Really interested to learn more about what you have done and how easy is it to do this? Sure. When my son was a toddler, he was at a local Arc preschool program. They sent home a flyer. I only signed up to do the coursework because he was so young (it’s expensive to do!) and I said to my husband “But we’ll get like 20 years out of this knowledge…” because I knew I had almost 20 years of IEP meetings ahead of me. The course itself is a school year long, twice a month, all day Saturday, with homework in between. Then, you have to do volunteer hours to complete your certification. After my first case of working with a family, I was hooked. I knew this was for me. As fate had it, I lost my job in 2010 as part of the recession, so I had time to do volunteer work and get started. It’s just my personality that I am a “big picture” and problem solving kind of person. Very early on…I realized that part of the main problem, the reason for all this tension between families and schools, is that the schools simply do not have enough money to serve our kids’ needs. (As a side note, philosophically, I get that, really I do. However, why fight with the parents over it? Why not band together to approach our legislators and demand better?) A lot of advocates will tell you—we’re simply putting out fires. We help one family at a time, get their situation resolved…but we don’t feel we do enough for the whole. I wanted to help the “whole” too. So I have been to Harrisburg (my state capitol) and DC several times to talk about special ed funding and the need. People don’t realize—IDEA 1975 was never fully funded. Ever! Our federal government agreed to fund up to 40% of what IDEA would cost, and they’ve NEVER ponied up more than 20%. States have made extreme cuts which has trickled down to the local level…and it has literally pitted family against family in districts, because one family knows that their extra-curricular was cut to pay for “those special ed kids.” It’s not right. If someone is interested in getting their certification, can you explain to us how they should go about doing it? Was it an online course? The program I did was through a group called NSEAI.org. National Special Education Advocacy Institute. The group started in Philadelphia which worked for me, but now they do offer it via webinar due to popular demand. How can a family work with you? Well, I only do my local geographic area. I would do online or phone consults, but it’s hard. Here, I know the players, I know the climate, I know what services my county and state offer. It can vary greatly from state to state so I may not have all the answers for a family not near me. I also understand you do some lobbying on 15 We need to collectively speak up and demand better. To make matters worse, “those special ed kids” are a small minority, and with recent Supreme Court rulings (about unlimited campaign donations) it means that our voice is smaller than ever. It’s a large and complex problem, but it’s a very serious one—much more serious than most parents realize. If big businesses can contribute as much as they want to campaigns, who are our candidates going to listen to? And do you think that any of these big businesses care about our kids, or their profits? Unless we demand otherwise, our legislators are go- facebook SpecialMompreneurs.com twitter