The SpecialMoms Parenting Magazine 2nd Issue | Page 5

Paul Murasko
that I don’t have all the answers and may never
will. Nonetheless, Jacob is a blessing and as
my mom always said, “God does not give you
anything you can’t handle.”

a career. Did having a child with
special needs change those dreams?
And if so how?

How did having a child with special needs
change you as a father?

No, it hasn’t. My hope is to provide Jacob every
opportunity possible to participate, learn, and
grow. They are no different than the dreams I had
for my daughter Amanda when she was his age.
Every child is different in his/her own way, and
having a special needs son is no different. Jacob

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currently participates in Upwards basketball, is
in a general education classroom setting, and, in
many ways, is no different than other 8 year old
boys--cute, mischievous, and manipulating in
his own way. I can’t wait to see what the future
brings.

and I hope others agree that I am an overall
better person because of Jacob. One of Jacob’s
gifts to everyone he comes in contact with is
that he will make you a better person if you open
your heart, accept him for who he is, and learn
from him. He continues to give of himself and
helps everyone to understand and appreciate
unconditional love.

As a father, you have certain dreams
for your child, whether it be playing
a sport, going to college or having

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Know your
and your
child’s
rights, and
remember
if you don’t
advocate for
your child ,
no one will .

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I believe having Jacob has made me a better
father. I feel I have grown in so many areas and
now look at things from a different lens. I feel

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What do you want to share with other
parents about how you advocate for
your child whether it be in the school,
with insurance companies or just in your
own community?

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