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Intimate Freedom
ON THE
OTHER HAND
This concept may seem a
bit foreign and downright
crazy to most but many are
claiming to be monogamous
when they are in fact; not.

Polyamory works?

Polyamory
Could it be right for you?
by Cidney Greene

P

olyamory is a word everyone should get
acquainted with. It means “many loves”
and it refers to the desire or practice
of having more than one intimate
relationship at a time with the consent of all
parties involved.
We all know people who have something like
this before right? They are with one person yet
seeing another. It’s called terms like “cheating” or
“creeping”. However, there is one factor missing
in set ups like those; honesty. This is the beauty of
polyamory.

We poly folks are not to be confused with
swingers. There is nothing wrong with swinging
at all but poly people like myself prefer much
deeper connections; hence “many loves”. There
are many poly lovers who swing but most
swingers are not poly.

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So many walk around torn
and tortured because they
cannot chose between
two or more people that
they adore. The reason the
choice is so challenging is
because it is not a choice
that should be made. One
should never have to
choose between two things
that feel good to them.

Why Not Monogamy
Monogamy is one of the
many social norms that
people just can’t seem to
stick to. That is because
human beings are not wired
that way. We are wired to
desire variety, which is why
we do. Asking someone
to only want one person
for life is the equivalent of
asking one to only eat fish
and fries for all eternity.
While it is not impossible,
it surly isn’t fun.
Ready to dig deeper?

We have been brainwashed
into thinking that love
is finite, that it is not
abundant. So therefore we
cannot possibly share it! If

we do then the tiny amount
of love that we are allow
will be taken from us. So
we must figure out a way to
control the people we love
because if we don’t, we will
be left unloved.
This flawed thinking is the
cause of so much misery
heartbreak and pain.
The truth is love is
absolutely abundant! You
prove this daily as you love
all sixteen of your cousins!
The same principal applied
here. Love was never
designed to be rationed.
Secondly, the idea that love
is something that someone
has to give you is ludicrous.
You are love itself.
Attempting to control
others from a place of lack
is a sure way to end up in
Miseryville. So do yourself
a favor and drop that nasty
habit.
Polyamory is more spiritual
than anything. It is not just
about sex (even though that
part is lovely). I have only
scratched the surface here
but if you will open your
heart to the ideas presented
here you will save yourself
lots of grief, guilt and
sorrow. Who knows…
you might just save your
relationship.
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