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# HESAYS Ladies like a man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it. This is the way of the Gentleman, the way we need to be. Each of us will go about this in our own ways, but here are the keys. It is at this point, once the rapport and a sense of trust have been built, that we let the lady know our intention. No, don’t say you want their chops, no gentleman does that. Instead let them know you enjoy their presence, you enjoy their vibes, you find them interesting and you want to keep the connection going. If that doesn’t get you at least a phone number, nothing will. Patience, gentlemen, is essential. It may be tempting to jump straight to the “good good” but most girls don’t work that way. In the end, and I speak from experience here, the quality of the girl who makes you earn their affection vastly outweighs anything you could gain from those too eager to be desired. Allow me to offer a resounding warning. Your life will be improved with a quality girl in it. Now don’t get me wrong, not every girl you put the moves on is going to be up to scratch, some may even only need you for a fling. The laws of the universe always win out and we’re only likely to attract what we can offer. Thus a quality girl needs a quality guy, and the dodgy guys out there will likely attract a dodgy girl, with all the drama she brings. The game is set, young man, and the task lies before you. Play hard, earn your stripes and enjoy the rewards. Good luck. 25