# HESAYS
There is in fact a definitive guide to this process , and there is far too much for me to list here but those of you interested enough can find the guide in the darker regions of the internet . The corner stone of our strategy is to be likable . A simple introduction which reveals who you are and provides a compliment in an nonthreatening way does just that . But our opponents are smart . Be prepared for the counter attack . We ’ re bound to face a series of subtle tests . Ladies use these , sometimes subconsciously , to assess whether or not we ’ re worth the time .
“ T e l l m e w h a t y o u d o , w h a t d o y o u d o f o r f u n , h o w d o y o u s p e n d y o u r d a y s , w h a t b r o u g h t y o u h e r e ? ” T h e m a i n t h e m e i s t h e m . G e n t l e m e n , I c a n n o t s t r e s s h o w i m p o r t a n t t h i s i s ! B y t a l k i n g a b o u t t h e m , w e s h o w o u r c o n c e r n a n d w e l e a r n v a l u a b l e i n f o r m a t i o n . I f s h e s a y s s h e l i k e s p i c n i c s , t h e r e ’ s a l l y o u n e e d t o p l a n y o u r n e x t d a t e ! A t t h i s p o i n t t h e g a m e i s i n f u l l s w i n g . I f a l l h a s g o n e w e l l w e s h o u l d b e i n t h e g o o d b o o k s . O u r p o w e r f u l f i r s t i m p r e s s i o n o p e n e d u p t h e i r d e f e n c e s a n d o u r c h a r m i n g r a p p o r t h a s l a i d t h e g r o u n d w o r k . N o w w e c l o s e t h e d e a l . I m p o r t a n t t o n o t e i s t h e t i m i n g . A r u s h e d c l o s e w i l l u n r a v e l a l l o u r h a r d w o r k , b u t l e a v e
t h e m o v e t o o l a t e a n d y o u ’ l l b e l a n g u i s h i n g i n t h e f r i e n d z o n e . T h i s i s p r o b a b l y t h e t o u g h e s t a n d m o s t c o m p l i c a t e d p l a y i n t h e g a m e b u t i t i s h e r e t h a t w e g a i n o u r v i c t o r y .
Be aware of those questions which may seem innocuous but reveal everything they need to know . Our response to this is twofold . First off , we need to be sincere with our responses , highlighting our best qualities . This does not mean bragging , there is a thin line that must be balanced . The ladies don ’ t like a bragger , but they don ’ t like the meek either . Be confident , be calm , be genuine but most of all be smart . Secondly this is an opportunity to flip the script . There is a strange power that can be drawn from directing the conversation back to the lady in question .
The swooning process is about her and she wants you to show that . We can get them talking about themselves , their likes and dislikes and their lives through the most uncomplicated questions :
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