# HESAYS
There is in fact a definitive guide to this process, and there is far too much for me to list here but those of you interested enough can find the guide in the darker regions of the internet. The corner stone of our strategy is to be likable. A simple introduction which reveals who you are and provides a compliment in an nonthreatening way does just that. But our opponents are smart. Be prepared for the counter attack. We’ re bound to face a series of subtle tests. Ladies use these, sometimes subconsciously, to assess whether or not we’ re worth the time.
“ T e l l m e w h a t y o u d o, w h a t d o y o u d o f o r f u n, h o w d o y o u s p e n d y o u r d a y s, w h a t b r o u g h t y o u h e r e?” T h e m a i n t h e m e i s t h e m. G e n t l e m e n, I c a n n o t s t r e s s h o w i m p o r t a n t t h i s i s! B y t a l k i n g a b o u t t h e m, w e s h o w o u r c o n c e r n a n d w e l e a r n v a l u a b l e i n f o r m a t i o n. I f s h e s a y s s h e l i k e s p i c n i c s, t h e r e’ s a l l y o u n e e d t o p l a n y o u r n e x t d a t e! A t t h i s p o i n t t h e g a m e i s i n f u l l s w i n g. I f a l l h a s g o n e w e l l w e s h o u l d b e i n t h e g o o d b o o k s. O u r p o w e r f u l f i r s t i m p r e s s i o n o p e n e d u p t h e i r d e f e n c e s a n d o u r c h a r m i n g r a p p o r t h a s l a i d t h e g r o u n d w o r k. N o w w e c l o s e t h e d e a l. I m p o r t a n t t o n o t e i s t h e t i m i n g. A r u s h e d c l o s e w i l l u n r a v e l a l l o u r h a r d w o r k, b u t l e a v e
t h e m o v e t o o l a t e a n d y o u’ l l b e l a n g u i s h i n g i n t h e f r i e n d z o n e. T h i s i s p r o b a b l y t h e t o u g h e s t a n d m o s t c o m p l i c a t e d p l a y i n t h e g a m e b u t i t i s h e r e t h a t w e g a i n o u r v i c t o r y.
Be aware of those questions which may seem innocuous but reveal everything they need to know. Our response to this is twofold. First off, we need to be sincere with our responses, highlighting our best qualities. This does not mean bragging, there is a thin line that must be balanced. The ladies don’ t like a bragger, but they don’ t like the meek either. Be confident, be calm, be genuine but most of all be smart. Secondly this is an opportunity to flip the script. There is a strange power that can be drawn from directing the conversation back to the lady in question.
The swooning process is about her and she wants you to show that. We can get them talking about themselves, their likes and dislikes and their lives through the most uncomplicated questions:
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