Sex & Intimacy in the Pink
Warming Up Those Chilly Nights
A RECIPE FOR ROMANCE and LOVE
By: Barbara Musser
Shorter daylight hours bring chilly
nights. Sharing an evening with your
sweetheart in front of the fire with
the intention of creating warmth and
romance is a way to keep the sparks of
love going.
What’s the recipe? Begin by setting
aside an evening just for you. Set the
stage by making some hot drinks ~ hot
spiced cider, hot chocolate, hot buttered
rum or whatever strikes your fancy and
warms your bones. Light a fire if you
have a fireplace or wood stove, or light
some candles. Turn the lights down low
and play some soft background music.
Make a cozy nest by the fire with pillows
and blankets, on the floor or on the sofa.
Have a hand towel and some warm
massage oil or lotion handy, and your
slippers or a clean pair of socks nearby.
Sit with your sweetie in your nest and
make yourselves comfy. Take a few
moments to look into each other’s eyes
and breathe together. This helps you
to slow down, connect through your
eyes and hearts, and get into the flow
of energy and love. See if you can sync
your breathing and feel the circular flow
of that as you continue to gaze into
each other’s eyes. Feel your heart relax
and open, and feel the depth of your
connection and love for each other.
Hold hands and ask your beloved if you
can massage and love their feet. If they
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Winter 2014
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