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Being Who We Are, Every Day, Everywhere by Novia S. Reid, LCSW I f you can remember the day you announced to your family and friends that you were pursuing a career in social work, how was the news received? Was there excitement, joy, and sincerity believing you were about to embark on a career that would change lives? Or was there concern, doubt, confusion, or wonder? Did you hear: “There is no By:money inS.else?”work.” “Why not choose Novia social “Social work? You want Reid, LCSW something to be a social worker?” “Is there nothing else you want to do?” it’s people like my student who recognize tor, school social worker, therapist, or residential coordinator, our reasons for and appreciate the naturalness of who we are that make it all worthwhile. Consider choosing this career are often the same. it an honor to be who you are, primarily Each presents a unique chance to impart because more often than not, people can changes in the lives of those who need us tell who you are by your character. most. There are blessings in these occu We have a gift, and it is a gift that pations, but office politics, unpleasant gets noticed by others even when we supervisors, and too much work for one ourselves are unaware of what gift is person to handle can often cause these being received through us. It is not difblessings to feel like burdens. Soon it ficult to be who we are, because the very becomes easy to lose the desire that reasons we chose to become social workonce led you to pursue this great career. ers are the very things that my student Although our desires and hearts can be saw in me when she decided to ask, “Are shattered by the many obstacles we face, you a social worker?” When we view there is still a world that needs us to be being a social worker through the eyes who we were called to be—“helpers at of many we meet, they will say it comes heart.” Not many experience the joy we naturally through us, and indeed it does. do, which comes from being who we are This is why we are who we are every at heart. I want to encourage us all that day, everywhere. There is nothing more although our profession is not perfect, beautiful and awe-inspiring than being it is unlike any other. It truly represents who you are every day, everywhere. a great mission. You could have chosen Therefore, take esteem in it! another profession, but there was something about being a social worker that Novia S Reid, LCSW, resides in Miami, FL, resounded in your heart. with her family. She is a licensed clinical social worker with a passion for marital and Always remember that there is reNovia and her students at the famous Suncouples therapy. She has served as a missionmarkability in us! Separate from the varicheon Bay for an outing. ary teacher in Suncheon, South Korea. ous positions we attain, the very essence of who we are is our compassion—our From the moment I entered Miami desire to help others and be an inspiring you of change. Dade If you in Miami, FL, I declared day agent announced to your family and friends that you were College can remember the We do not need a title to be who social work as my major and never once Connect with pursuing a career in Social Work, how are. How do I know? I experienced their excitement, joy, and we was the news received? Was did I change it. When many asked why I THE NEW SOCIAL WORKER this while being a missionary teacher in chose it, I was not completely sure at the sincerity believing you were about to embark One day, a student asked South Korea. on a career that would change lives? Or was time. The only answer I can remember Online me, “What is your profession?” I said, giving was, “I want to.” It was likely not their concern, doubt, confusion, or wonder? Didworker.” She said, “That’s no money in Social Work?” “I am a social you hear: “There is the most convincing answer, but it was the only one I knew. Now, when people why you’re so friendly and kind.” I ? “Why why I choosea something Ielse?” “Social Work? it dawned on me that a Social Worker?” “Is there ask not became social worker, conpaused, and then You want to be here, my title was that of a missionary fidently and genuinely say, “Social work teacher, not a social worker. Yet, I was chose else is a want to endless nothingme.” Ityoucalling with do?” possibilities. recognized by my actions. Share ideas with as I From the moment I entered Miami Dade are important,Miami, FL, I declared Social Work others was aware that social workers were Yes, titles College in because underpaid and undervalued, but what society requires them to recognize our on our discussion forum. duties, draw upon many asked myI knew about howneverofonce did I change toit. When the distinctions why I chose it, I was not major and much an impact they had on the lives of others, how between ours and other professions, and See what’s coming in families and they cared for children and time. The only answer reasons. But one thing titles many other I can remember giving was “I want to.” It was completely sure at the future issues of tried to make the world a better place do not do is define us. Our words and for not the most it—that is what actions it was the only every knew. Now, THE NEW SOCIAL likely those who lived in convincing answer, butdo. Being who we are,one Iday, when people ask comes naturally. It is the very reason struck the cords of my heart. I wished to WORKER. why we are recognized without declaring become a part a Social Worker, why I became of those who had pavedI confidently and genuinely say, “Social Work chose me.” It is a the way and helped so many people. In our titles. Of all the blessings that come www.socialworker.com from what we do, that’s the greatest! this field, care, compassion, healing, and calling with endless possibilities. Take time to remind yourself that hope seemed to have no limits. 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