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Sex, that powerful, beautiful, instinctive way for couples to express love and intimacy, tends to be the focal point of homecoming fantasies. But after being physically separated during a deployment, awkward moments are completely normal. Though post-deployment sex may come naturally for some, others may find it initially challenging. If you focus on re-establishing intimacy, great sex will follow.
-Plan (or create) alone time together without children, parents, friends or relatives. Many couples take advantage of the drive home to pull over and “blow off steam”.
-Of course, a celebratory bottle is a great idea, but too much alcohol reduces sex drive and performance. If he hasn’t had a drink for several months, his alcohol tolerance will be lowered so it might be a good idea to encourage him to imbibe after your needs have been met.
-Make a point of seeing each other naked under the premise of doing something else so you can re-acquaint yourselves with each other’s bodies, new tattoos, weight changes, plastic surgery, etc. A great way to do this is by undressing each other and showering or bathing together.
-Talk, cuddle, flirt. Be playful, it will help reduce performance anxiety. Also, it may be best to put off role playing for the time being as he will need some time to re-acquaint himself with reality before getting back into bedroom fantasies.
-Take precautions if you’re not trying to get pregnant again.
- Relax, and get to know each other again!