likes a Debbie Downer!!! Enjoy having your freedom and enhance your self-esteem with great friends, spa visits, or just some simple recreational activities. (retail therapy always works for me, make sure you keep it sensible though, otherwise that Credit Card bill will come and slap you in the face!!!) Hold you head up high, for you are back on the market and if you want the men to know there is steak for dinner, then honey you have to let them hear it!!! Have fun with being single and mingle with others!!! Good luck!!!
Dear Anthony,
I have a male friend I think is gay. In the movie Steel Magnolias, they said all gay men have track lighting. Is there clues like that to figure out if he is gay with out asking him?
Gaydar Overload
Gaydar, I am in love with that movie and love that you can quote it!!! Are you a gay man trapped inside a woman’s body (you are a woman right?) I hate to say that Gaydar sometimes does not work (especially with how many men are coming forward looking all Metro-sexual and all, hard to distinguish) But as much as I adore all the women in that movie and their characters, that line is just not true. I am a gay man and I don’t even have track lighting. “And all gay men are named Mark, Rick or Steve.” …is your friend’s name Mark, Rick or Steve? None of our gay friends are named either of those names. Obviously this must be a fairly new relationship with you two because you would have definitely known by now if he was indeed gay. But asking the question is very intruding and could make the relationship sour, depending on his comfort level. Bottom line, drop subtle hints at hot men and women, talk fashion, music, and movies, and you should be able to get a good idea. (but if he can quote movies or Golden Girl episodes that are typically gay, DING DING DING!!!!) So I leave