“I've been dating since I was fifteen. I'm exhausted. Where is he?”- Charlotte, Sex and The City
You love the thought of being in love. You have been dreaming of your wedding day since you have been a little girl. You want Mr. Right and you idolize romance he is going to bring into your life. That is Charlotte; she looks at life with rose colored glasses. There is nothing wrong with this, but it also means you are a very easy target for heart ache when you meet someone and he isn’t what you want as Mr. Right. Love is more than building a perfect life with someone. Love is about getting through the roller coaster of life. Anyone can say those words I love you, it the actions that really show the love. Charlotte found her Mr. Right in Trey, he turned out to be what she wanted, but there was no love. She found her true Mr. Right in Harry, he was nothing what she imagined, but he showed her what love really was.
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