keep them in our lives. Like most men, we constantly
find ourselves consumed with our daily routines and
momentary lapses, that we get secure with our significant
others being there without effort on our parts. We
expect them to be content and aiding to our needs and
wants, give us that nurturing were so desperately seeking.
There’s no easy road for us to find, its not mechanics. We
can’t simply see the problem and read a how-to guide.
Relationships can be tricky, too much attention and
we’re overbearing, not enough and we lose them another
competitive adversary.
The key is finding that balance which makes everything
sink into place. We shouldn’t have to fight our way to
love, rather it just find us in the moment. Maybe that’s
the problem at hand, as men, we tend to force situations
rather than let them happen naturally. It’s our nature to
be dominant. Yet somehow, we need to find simplicity in
ourselves in order to maintain the healthy relationship
we desire. You could argue that if the right woman
comes along, it just clicks. Honestly, this is a myth just
the same as Aphrodite herself coming down to pursue
you. Your woman takes work, communication and, above
all, patience. These are all valued lessons we learn with
each encounter. The art of perfecting these methods is
incredibly hard to understand at times.
The search is continuous for some of us, and for others,
they’ve been blessed with finding someone compatible
with minimal effort. It’s only a matter of time before she
comes along, and like a fairy tale, your heart beats to a
different drum. Just allow it, try not fighting and looking
over at your neighbor’s yard. The grass isn’t any greener
than what you’ve got in your yard. In the meantime, along
this search, keep your head focused on becoming your
own friend first, allow yourself to let Ms. Wrong teach you
about Ms. Right and try to enjoy Ms. Rightnow until then.
We are men, and needs have to be met. It’s genuinely
being yourself, allowing change to happen and coexist
with your surroundings. Forcing any situation usually
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