(Stockholm means); Falling in love with their abuser and defending them in their wrong doing as they say… The Victims are then set on a mission to protect the narcissist, instead of protecting themselves from the narcissist, as the Victim constantly makes selfless sacrifices for narcissist in ways the narcissist would never do for the victim.
Narcissist will start to cause the Victim to question their own reality, Gas lighting them…. (a example of Gas lighting); is the Victim seeing the narcissist do something and then the narcissist would swear to God that they did not do it even though the victim just saw them doing it and making the victim feel as though they are the problem… The narcissist will start an argument with the victim for no reason and then blame the victim. Narcissist causes unnecessary trouble for the victim while knowing that the victim is working on something important… If you have kids with them, they will use the kids to spite you, like not picking them up from school, not letting the kids talk to you, anything to get under your skin. As they are addicted to your reactions and to your pain, but they want to be the only ones causing you that pain. In fact, the only time you will see a narcissist actually act like they care for the victim’s wellbeing is when they are trying to pull them back in or when someone else is being cruel to the victim.
UNDERSTANDING HEALTHY VS. UNHEALTHY NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIPS
Realistically, when it comes to relationships, some people who have been in a relationship with a narcissist their entire life struggles to understand what it even means to be in a healthy relationship, and how does it differ from a relationship with a narcissist? Well, the first thing you should know is that a healthy relationship is achieved by people who wants to help one another live a happy life together.
A narcissistic relationship is entirely different from this. In fact, the narcissist makes sure that everything in this relationship is about them. As they cannot refrain from talking about themselves, their wants, needs and accomplishments for long as possible because the entire relationship is about them (me, me, me, me never us, never we, just me).. obviously, they are very Jealous of people, and do not want