How do I know this you might ask? Well I too was a victim of a narcissistic abusive relationship, the cycle went on for over a decade with my ex-husband. I am now a survivor and I thrive daily to help others like myself to overcome their narcissistic abuser and regain their life!
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT NARCISSISTS?
The first thing you need to know about a person who suffers from narcissist-personality disorder is that they are incapable of loving or caring.
Narcissist will use people for whatever they can get from them. The narcissist may pretend at first to be caring, by buying flowers, giving gifts, answering your calls, sending you message with emoji’s, little things to make you think they care.
Narcissists will seek out victims who are young, innocent, successful, happy and in many cases, have no family ties and take pleasure in drawing people into their world of seclusion, trauma and isolation.
However, the goal of the narcissist is to manipulate people in order to break and destroy everything that is important to the victim.
More so, this kind of treatment brings the abuser even more pleasure destroying a person entirely, seeing the pain they cause is like a drug to them.
The narcissist will break their victim down to nothing to ensure that the victim feels less worthy. The Abuser will make a person feel as though they cannot go on by themselves and that they need the abuser in order to simply exist in life. Narcissists instill fear in their victims in order to intimidate, that way if the person considers leaving or speaking-up for their rights then they know the price will be punishment.
Narcissist will do everything they can to tear a person apart both internally and externally. Know this, a narcissist acts entirely different when they are in public than when they are in private.
In public, the narcissist will continue to use the mask approach; this is the phase where the narcissist treats a person so well in front of others they look like the world’s most perfect couple. For instance, always smiling and grooming each other, if there were