One of two things are likely to happen. He will either tell you that he doesn't
want you to see other people or he will tell you to go ahead and see other
men. If he tells you that he doesn't want you to see other people, I want you
to do something that may feel uncomfortable. I want you to stand your
ground. Do not compromise on your standards. Tell him, "I want (insert
commitment here) and I won't settle for anything less." The other reaction
you may receive is him telling you to go ahead and see other men. This
would probably be hurtful but once again, don’t give in or backtrack from
your decision. Whatever his response, be prepared to move forward with
your life. The point is that this isn’t about him. It's about you. This is your life
and you are designing it with the decisions that you're making right now.
Third, and most importantly, put your time and energy into yourself. Invest in your health, your career, your
goals, your friends, your hobbies, your happiness and into preparing for the relationship that you desire by
becoming the best partner that you can be. This way when it does show up, you'll be able to make it
wonderful and keep it that way. Remember that you are always training other people how to treat you. If
you know that you are highly valuable and worthy and you treat yourself kindly and with respect, others will
do the same. Treat yourself the way that you would have others treat you. Take excellent care of yourself.
Rhiannon
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