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(continued) Take time to talk to each other and express how you feel about one another and why you think you are ready to take the next step. Help him understand the faith you have in him and your relationship. Highlight the trust you two have built and the wonderful things that can come out of taking things to the next level. When to Jump Ship After trying the above mentioned techniques and he still won’t commit, it’s time to make a decision. Break ups are hard, but staying in a relationship where you aren’t getting what you need is harder. Respect his feelings and decide how you want to handle things. Remember, no amount of pushing and demanding will change him. Have respect for your feelings and know your value. The right man is out there. Signs It’s Time to Move On 1. You are dating for more than 6 months and there are no signs of forthcoming commitment. 2. He has told you straight out that he is not interested in committing. (No, you’re not going to change his mind). 3. He has kept your relationship a secret with his family and friends. 4. Most of the time you spend together is to have sex. Move Forward Once you’ve made the decision, don’t look back. If you’ve decided to stay in the relationship, don’t be bitter or guilt your man. There’s nothing more unattractive than a whiny, bitter woman. If you have moved on, move on with a positive attitude. Don’t wait – live your life. Breaking things off with someone you care about is painful. But you can find the courage and strength to embark on a new journey. And who knows, it may be with that special someone who has been waiting just for you. The 4 Best Cities to Find Love As ranked by The Daily Beast Thedailybeast.com #1, Long Beach, CA Singles B Social life: B Emotional health: A+ Marriage: B Divorce: B Romantic hotspot: Ristor ante daVinci #3, Santa Ana, CA Singles: A Social life: A Emotional health: C Marriage: A+ Divorce: D Romantic hotspot: Ambr osia Restaur ant #2, Anaheim, CA Singles: A Social life: A Emotional health: C Marriage: A Divorce: C Romantic hotspot: Anaheim White House #4, Seattle, WA Singles: A Social life: B Emotional health: A+ Marriage: C Divorce: D Romantic hotspot: Assaggio Ristor ante 8