The Charbonneau Villager Newspaper 2020_Feb issue Villager newspaper | Page 11

THE CHARBONNEAU VILLAGER 11 February 2020 Boys and Girls Aid By ZOE NIKLAS Boys receive sports bags during Christmas time “The World is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it.” — Albert NIKLAS Einstein Val had been with me through the long months in the Seattle Youth Center. We both were fighting in court against abusive parents. A month after my release, I discovered Val in the Big Junction of West Seattle. It was so good to see her! Grabbing her, I breathlessly exclaimed: “We made it, Val! We are out! When did you get out? Do you like your foster family?” Finally, releasing her from my exuberant hug, I noticed that she wasn’t happy. “I wasn’t as lucky as you,” she said with a defeated air. “It’s okay, I guess, as long as I stay away from my foster father. He scares me.” We continued our reunion that rainy December evening, promising that we would meet again. As she walked away, I wished her luck with her new family, but I never saw or heard from her again. She just vanished. This account, although true for some children, is not true for the children served by Boys and Girls Aid in Ore- gon. One of the programs of Boys and Girls Aid is called Safe Place. It is spe- cifically designed to assist homeless and runaway children. It is the only homeless and runaway shelter for kids in Washington County. What we do here is rebuild the broken bridges the children suffer between their biologi- cal, or adoptive, or step families. This sanctuary allows the children a break from constant worry as to where they will be the next day, or when their next meal will come. It is truly a safe place. After their stay at Safe Place, the youth may be aided in securing stable housing through STEP, which stands for Stabilization, Transition and Evaluation Program. These youth are served in cer- tified foster homes. The children are not thrown back on the streets as runaways but are counseled and helped to find sta- bility in their environment. Boys and Girls Aid designs its pro- grams for permanent placement with carefully screened foster or adoptive parents. Focus is directed at the physi- cal and mental health of the children by providing positive experiences. The Cypress Branch in Wilsonville is in- strumental in several of these. Among these positive experiences is the assembling of sports bags at Christ- mas for 30 of the boys served by Boys and Girls Aid. These sports bags were financed through a grant from the Wil- sonville Rotary. Each sports bag con- tains a basketball, sweatshirt, socks, water bottle, a box of 24 homemade cookies and a variety of other things. We assembled them at the house of one of our members and then sent them to Portland for the boys’ Christmas party. Among those attending the party were the boys at Safe Place and in the STEP program. These children were thrilled! It was reported that when the bags were opened one of the boys protec- tively carried his box of cookies around for the rest of the evening. Another positive experience for the children of Boys and Girls Aid are Eas- ter baskets assembled for and given to girls. At Christmas we give gifts to all the children served by Boys and Girls Aid. Each gift has been specifically re- quested by each child. The baskets and gifts are donated by members of the Charbonneau branch. When children are no longer young enough to be covered by the foster care system but have not been adopted they are served by the Transitional Living Program. This ministry provides hous- ing and stability to young adults get- ting ready to be independent. They live in apartments, either work or go to school (or both), save their money and are provided with training needed to branch out on their own. This training can be in the form of cooking, money management and caring for a child. Yes, some of these teens have children See BOYS AND GIRLS AID / Page 12 CAI award for CCC Community Associations Institute Oregon Chapter Awards to Charbonneau Country Club - Very Large Association - 2019 Community Association of the Year Award Award presentation to Lindy Anderson and Jim Meierotto (holding the plaque).