Tha Lifestyle Feb,2014 | Page 32

THA LIFESTYLE | FAMILY & PETS A n expectant mother would read or sing to her unborn child showing just how early one could facilitate the learning of their child. Learning and development continue in a more evident form following birth; milestones are achieved, physical and mental development rigorously monitored. Every Child is Unique One of the guiding principles of the Early Years Framework in the UK (ages 0 – 5) is accepting that every child is unique. This ‘uniqueness’ should be celebrated and nurtured to maximise their capabilities and enhance their personality. Comparison, therefore can often lead to the discouragement of parents concerning their child’s abilities and achievements. You are your child’s most influential educator! Until your child commences formal education, you are your child’s sole educator. Children learn and pick up many skills such as speech, motor skills and social interaction from their parents or caregivers. Therefore it is worth making every second count! Learning at this stage can be quite broad and includes every single interaction that takes place between you and your child. Daily chores such as feeding, bathing, dressing up, visiting the outdoors, interaction with peers and extended family members may not seem important but they are great opportunities for your child to broaden their understanding. Parents could make use of these situations to enrich the knowledge and understanding of their young children. For instance your child may seem to be making a right mess by ripping up some paper; but in reality, he is broadening, EDUCATION BEGINS AT HOME! However the urge for most young parents to kick start formal learning can be quite strong given the highly competitive nature that exists in education among the migrant community in the UK. To make matters worse, parents tend to compare their children’s capabilities to that of others, often wondering ‘Am I doing enough?’ or ‘Is my child behind?’ Page 28 This could also lead to low self esteem amongst the children themselves when their parents are constantly comparing them with their peers. If any concerns do arise about their child’s social, physical or psychological growth, parents/ guardians should always seek professional help first. Ann Ariyaratnam Early Years Practitioner his understanding of how things work, how he could manipulate his limbs to create changes, working on his hand/eye coordination and is indulging in an invaluable leaning experience!