Team Talk Mar 2013 | Page 9

deep change of heart and acƟon. If we cause hurt to others, either unintenƟonally or deliberately, we should feel deep regret for our acƟons. Yet, so oŌen, we resort to jusƟfying our acƟons or blaming someone else rather than admit our wrong. This is nothing new – it has been happening since the Garden of Eden. Defensive selfjusƟficaƟon. Passing the buck. A total unwillingness to admit we’re in the wrong. But if we want to change we must first admit our ‘sin’ and feel deep sorrow over it. In his leƩer to the ChrisƟans in Corinth, St. Paul talks about the big difference between godly sorrow and worldly sorrow. Worldly sorrow is saying sorry but not meaning it. Or even saying sorry and meaning it, but having the inability to change your life and so all that is leŌ is biƩerness and regret. That, says Paul, is a living death having to deal with your own guilt & biƩerness. And unforgiven sin leads to death, in the sense of being cut off from God. The difference with godly sorrow is that there is forgiveness and power to change. How can that be? Well, the events of Easter provide us with a big clue! Whether we choose to admit it or not we all do wrong, which puts us on the wrong side of God. However, God has done something about it. He is able to set right the record straight, through the death of Jesus Christ on the cross. We can be forgiven, we can be washed clean for the wrong things we have done and start with a ‘clean slate’. We can look back and say, “Yes, I know I did wrong, but I am forgiven”. I made this amazing discovery a number of years ago and my life has never been the same since. Yet, accepƟng my need of forgiveness and accepƟng that I was forgiven wasn’t easy, mainly due to pride and guilt. It’s one thing to admit you’re in the wrong, quite another to accept forgiveness and have the power to change – all we have to do is leave it at the foot of the Cross and Christ will set us free. Do you bear burdens of regret and biƩerness which weigh you down? Maybe you’ve been deeply wronged, or deeply hurt someone else. The message of Easter speaks of forgiveness, reconciliaƟon, restoraƟon and new life - in Jesus Christ - come and explore Easter with us—you’ll be amazed! NB. God is in the business of transforming lives and in His love He accepts us as we are, but because of His love He doesn’t leave us as we are! Your friend & Team Rector, Gary Cregeen