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21 . He asks her father for her hand in marriage In Victorian days , a gentleman would have to show his coat of arms , or his credentials to her father to show he was a worthy man for marriage . The 21st century gentleman asks her father for his blessing because it ’ s respectful and courteous .
Bottom line is , there are many rules of etiquette . While they might not be deal-breakers anymore , she will still be impressed with your knowledge and charm .
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