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If you have not read the thank you card on the noticeboard here’s what it says: To the members of St Oswald’s Scottish Episcopal Church I am writing to say a huge thank you for your wonderful donation of £198 for Cancer Research UK which you raised at your Harvest Festival. Many thanks Carol Grant THOUGHTS FOR THE NEW YEAR RESCUED FROM THE OLD Every year I get an Advent Calendar which is published in Hamburg, Germany under the title: ‘A different kind of Advent’. It contains thoughts for the day, some of those I would like to share with you. DO YOU PRAY That is a question which usually irritates people. The question is embarrassing and so is the answer. Praying is considered child-like, childish, since a prayer would have been the first encounter with faith for a child. Yet the Good-Night prayer verses, which grandmothers have taught, have remained intimately familiar. Often prayer is the first and the last thing people do in their lives, Alpha and Omega. Do you pray? The question is considered to be impudent. Those asking and answering know that prayer does need a remnant of child-like trust, it means talking to some being which does not answer readily. That is naive, curious, suspect, a remnant of the old un-enlightened times in our secular world. Is that so? Is praying an unreasonable act? Prayer is more alive than the churches which teach it. It is more lively, because you don’t necessarily need the church’s teaching or hierarchy for it. Prayer gives language to needs, it by-passes ‘speechless desperation’, it gives words to happiness and to misery, there is nothing which cannot be said, even up to crying: ’My God, why have you forsaken me!’- This cry in extremis is already a beginning: He that cries is not stuck in resignation but has started to act against the injury done to him and to others. (Heribert Prantl) StOM Page 6