Solutions June 2019 | Page 45

Life is just structured that way. But your brain and your world do better when you develop casuals. And most of them won’t introduce themselves to you, for the same reason that you aren’t introducing yourself. It won’t happen until someone takes the first step. John Townsend When Barbi and I moved to our present home years ago, we wanted—as social beings—to be good neighbors. Even though we were the new kids on the block, we felt a responsibility to reach out. Fortunately, we like hosting and parties, so we invited our neighbors to different events at the house. We have found that we are surrounded by wonderful people whom we love to be with. It’s worth extending an invitation. Dr. John Townsend is a nationally- known leadership consultant, psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author. John is the founder of the Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling, and the Townsend Leadership Program, which is a nationwide system of leadership training groups. He developed the online digital platform TownsendNOW and the online assessment tool TPRAT. Solutions • 45