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¨p-sImïp-t]m-bn, A-Sp¯-h-À-jw
tN-À-¡m³ \n-À-_-\v-[n-¡p-t¼mÄ
b-Ym-À-Y¯nð kw-`-hn-¡p-I Ip-«nbpsS kzm-`m-hn-I ]-cn-k-c-hpw h-fÀ-¨-bpw Cñm-Xm-¡-em-Wv. C-Xphgn Ip-«n I-Sp¯ am-\-kn-I ]n
-cn-ap-dp-¡¯nemIpw. aÕcn¨pÅ
t]cân§mWv Ip«nIsf ]et¸m
gpw sS³j\nem¡póXv.''
""]e Ip«nIÄ¡pw H¯ncn
A[ym]Icpïv, FñmbnS¯pw.''
CXv A]ISamsWóv At±lw ]
dªp. A-[ym-]-I-cm-b an-¡-A-½am-cpw Ip-«n-I-sf X-§Ä ]-Tn-¸n¡pó kv-Iq-fnð X-só tN-À-¡pw.
C-hn-sS Ip-«n-bm-Wv ]n-cn-ap-dp¡¯nð A-I-s¸-Sp-I. ho-Spw
ym
kv-Iq-fpw X-½nð Ip-«n-¡v hy-Xymk-anñm-Xm-Ipw. ho-Sn-s³d Xp-S-À-¨Ipw.
Iqbm-Ipw kv-Iq-fpw. Ip-«n-bp-sS kzm\nX-{´yw l-\n-¡-s¸-Spw.
Ip-«n-IÄ kv-Iq-fnð, ]-Tnn
¡p-I am-{X-a-ñ sN¿pó-Xv.
a-äv ]-e c-k-I-camb Imkcy-§-fpw A-h-À A-hn-sS
sN¿póp-ïvv. Ip-«n-IÄ¡v
ï
I-fn-¡-Ww.. I-fn-¡p-I-bm-Wv
Ip-«n-I-sf kw-_-Ôn-¨v G-ähpw {]n-b-s¸-« Im-cyw. A-Xns¸n
\v A-\p-h-Zn-¡p-t¼m-gm-Wv
ZnA-h-cp-sS a-\-kv A-b-bp-I.
hn-P-bw am-{Xw tXSpóhÀ
{Xw
Ip-«n-I-fp-sS a-\-kv Im-Wn-ñ.
A-Xv ap-dp-Ipó-Xpw.
Ipó-

kp-c-£n-X-cm-¡m-\p-Å
Xk-½-À-ZwXmam-Xm-]n-Xm-¡Ä¡v X¡Ä
§-fp-sS a-¡Ä kp-c-£n-X
-cm-tWm Fó D-Xv-I-Wv-T
bm-Wv F-t¸m-gpw. Ip«n
ssk-¡nÄ N-hn-«pó-tXm, Hä¡v
kv¡qfnð t]mIpótXm Hópw
A-h-À-¡v Aw-Ko-I-cn-¡m³ ]-än-ñ.
s´Ip«n-¡v F-s´-¦n-epw ]-äp-tamWv
sbó-Xm-Wv Nn-´. Ip-«n-I-fp-sS
B-{K-lw Xn-cn-¨p-am-hpw. kz´w
ev
Imenð \nev¡m\pÅ IgnhmIpw
¡fpsS
amXm]nXm¡fpsS AanX \nb{´
S
W¯neqsS \jvSamIpóXv. A
tXmsSm¸w kz´w sshImcnI ]n
§Ä
cnapdp¡p§Ä kzbw ssIImcyw
Å
sN¿m\pÅ Ignhpw.
Ip-«n-IÄ h-f-tcï-Xv k-aq-l
p¯
¯n-em-Wv. A-hn-sS Hm-tcm-cp¯p
À-¡pw Hm-tcm ]-¦v h-ln-¡m-\pð,
ïv. Fómð, Cóv Ip-«n-IÄ ]
ecpw h-f-cpóXv Hm-tcm Hm-tcm
fmXp-cp¯p-I-fm-bm-Wv. Cu H-ä-s¸ð
Sð Ahcnð k-½-À-Z-hpw ]n-cn-apdp-¡-hpw kr-jv-Sn-¡póp-sïóv
kvamÀ«v^manen HIvtSm_À 2013

a-\-im-kv-{X hn-Z-Kv-[-\m-b Pbnwkv
]-d-bpóp.""km-aq-ly-]-c-am-b
]n-´p-W-bm-Wv ]n-cn-ap-dp-¡-§-sf
t\-cn-Sm-\p-Å kw-c-£-WLS-Iw.
]-t£, \-ap-¡v (am-Xm]n-Xm-¡Ä¡v-) t]mepw H-ä-s¸-Sð
A-\p-`-h-s¸-Spóp, A-Xn-t\-¡mÄ
IqSpXð Ip-«n-IÄ¡v H-ä-s¸-Sð
A-\p-`-h-s¸-Spóp-,'' sPbnwkv hyIv-X-am¡póp.

F-§-s\ k-lm-bn-¡m-\mhpw-?
]-Tt\-X-c I-em-þIm-bn-I {]-h-À
¯-\-§-fnð Ip-«n-sb AanXambn
]-¦m-fn-bm-¡p-óXv ]ncnapdp¡
apÅ Zn\Ncy¡v ImcWamImw.
Ip-Spw-_mw-K-§Ä Hón-¨v c-k-Ic-am-bn k-a-bw Nn-e-hn-Sm\pÅ
Ahkcw IpdbpóXpw sS³j³

krjvSn¡mw. sshIptócw Kr
l]mTw sNbvXp XoÀónsñ¦nð
AXpw {]iv\amImw. CXn\n
SbnemImw kl]mTnbnð \n
ópÅ k½À±hpw, ]co£sb
¡pdn¨pÅ DXvIWvTbpw þ sS³
j³ IqSn¡qSn hcpItb DÅq.
At¸mÄ amXm]nXm¡Ä¡v F´v
sN¿m\mIpw.
Ip-«n-I-fp-sS Po-hn-X¯nð k½-À-Z-§Ä Ip-d-¡m-\m-Wv am-Xm]n-Xm-¡Ä {i-an-t¡ï-Xv. Ip-«nIÄ¡v kz-X-{´ k-a-bw (
) a-Xn-bm-b co-Xn-bnð e-`n¡p-óp-sïóv D-d-¸m-¡-Ww. Ip-«n
am\-kn-I ]n-cn-ap-d-¡w t\-cn-SpóXm-bn Iïmð A-Xn-s³d Im-ckWw Xn-c-bp-I. kv-Ip-fnð
\nómWm, ho-«nð \nóm-tWm