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about their bodies, still striving to speak up and let loose their fears, wonders and wishes. In 2003, Shirin Ebadi (Iran) won the Nobel Prize for Peace for her efforts for democracy and human rights that focused especially on the struggle for the rights of women and children. A year later, Wangari Muta Maathai (Kenya) won for her contribution to sustainable development, democracy and peace. In 2011, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf and Leymah Gbowee (both from Liberia) and Tawakkul Karman (Yemen) won the prize for their non-violent struggle for the safety of women and for women’s rights to full participation in peace- building work. In 2014, Malala Yosafzai (Pakistan) shared the prized with Kailash Satyarthi (male, India) for their struggle against the suppression of children and young people and for the right of all children to education. Last year, Nadia Murad (Iraq) shared the prize with Denis Mukwege (male, Democratic Republic of the Congo) for their efforts to end the use of sexual violence as a weapon of war and armed conflict. These are all notable achievements by women the world over, doing their part to make the world a safer place to live, work, play, and dream. Here in Saint Lucia, there are many sheroes would excel in various spheres, including Dame Pearlette Louisy (education and governance), Levern Spencer (sports), Dame Lawrence Laurent (education), to name a few. They continue to be inspirations for not only future generations but also their contemporaries. “It’s a big step that we have women of colour representing the possibility of every woman in poverty and different ethnicities having not only the right to speak but also think about the ability to captivate and make a wonder of themselves,” Belausteguigoitia said. “That is a very empowering thing for all women.” Meanwhile, Kentillia Louis, Artistic Director of She.lc and Managing Director of YouthSPAC, said she got a sense of solidarity at the forum: “We go about our daily lives, but hardly do we get a chance to sit down and share our feelings, frustrations and hopes. So these forums get people to generate these types of discussions.” However, Louis said the work must not end at just talking about the problems. She said that while it might seem that women have reached their zenith, “we still have to look at how we see ourselves and whether we’re comfortable being women, especially in terms of gaining employment.” She added: “We often tend to that it’s the next generation -- the girls -- who need the support and empowerment. However, everyone needs to be empowered -- men, women, boys and girls. They need to know that there are places they can go to when they need such assistance. But these things are not in place.” www.slyoumag.com | July-August 2019 Women’s issues are everybody’s issues, Louis said, adding that whenever women demand certain rights, men need not become defensive or feel threatened. Rather, she said men need to show empathy. Women who are vocal and assertive often leads to them being characterized as arrogant and bitchy, while whenever men demonstrate similar traits they are deemed to be go-getters. Louis believes people need to feel free to be who they truly are, especially if they are not violating other people’s rights. She also underscored why that common misconception exists. “In the Caribbean, we come from a tradition that was supportive of oppression, keeping us in a position where we had low self-esteem,” she explained. “So we accept and become servants all of our lives. All of this is part of the problem and we need to recognize it. Change is always uncomfortable, but after you would have experienced the discomfort, you reach a new level and see things differently.” SL-YOU | Business, People & Lifestyle 25