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One day God spoke to me. He showed me what I was feeling was discontentment and that I was breaking his command not to desire what others had. It was a huge “AHA” moment. I didn’t watch a home décor show for many years after that to avoid the temptation to get back into that pattern of thinking. THE SEED OF DISCONTENTMENT What else can cause discontentment? When you see someone else’s husband bringing flowers home regularly to his wife to express his love to her. My husband is not a flower giver. If anything, he will give me a flowering plant which can be transplanted into the garden later. He is very practical. So what do I do when I feel the churning of discontentment? I focus on God and what He has given me. I have His love and salvation and an eternal hope. I have a home. I have a husband, and a good one too. I have children. I have fairly good health. I can enjoy my food, actually taste it. My sense of smell is very sharp. My hearing is pretty good. The list can go on, and you need to edit it to fit your circumstances. After you have listed all that you have been blessed with, go through the list and thank God for each one. It’s amazing how He will transform your perspective! This has enabled me to show a love and respect for my husband which he very much appreciates. In response, he will help me with cleaning the kitchen or putting laundry away. In these acts of serving he is showing me his love. A few years ago, my friend’s son was in the hospital with devastating burns. He had a tracheal tube in for three www.simplyelevate.com 81