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next morning she would have shoved the teacup at you in anger.
Her sulking would continue for the next three days.
Adjustment during Mealtime
Ideal daily life interaction means to adjust everywhere.
This precious time is for your spiritual development. Do not
create differences. I give you these words: “Adjust Everywhere!”
If the soup is too salty, you should remember what Dada has
said about adjusting. Eat a little of it. You can even ask for some
pickle if you want, but do not quarrel. There should be no
conflicts in the home. Adjustments will bring harmony during
difficult situations in life.
If You Dislike It, Accept It Anyway
Adjust with the very person who misadjusts with you. If
there are maladjustments in the daily life between a woman and
her daughter-in-law, or vice versa, the one who wants to
escape from the vicious cycle of the worldly life should adjust.
Even between husband and wife, when one keeps ripping things
up, the other must mend. This is the only way a relationship can
be sustained with peace. There is no need to insist on your
viewpoint in this relative world. A human should be adjustable
everywhere.
To Improve Her or to Adjust to Her?
How beautiful life will be if you adjust to the other person
in every situation. After all, what do we take with us when we
die? “I will set her straight,” he says. If you attempt to make her
straight, you yourself will become crooked. Do not try to
improve your wife. Just accept her as she is. It would be a
different matter if you had a permanent relationship with her life
after life. Who knows where she will be in her next life? You will
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