Kelly, was pregnant when I read it on social media, and I was
devastated. How could she not call me and tell me something
that important? Then I realized that by not maintaining contact,
I had shut her out of my life; I had communicated to her that
she was not important to me.
I decided right then to try and repair all of my friendships
and I started making contact. I went through page after page
of Facebook messages and resumed contact with the women
who had meant so much for me over the years. It has worked,
for the most part, although Kelly seems to be slipping away
since she had her son. But my experience tells me that she is
going through the same t