Obviously everyone is different, but being a natural, playful communicator is about observing and connecting in that present moment.
When it comes to how to talk playfully, and suggestively without being crude or too obvious or offensive, you ' ve got to trust your gut, observe and take your hint from the person you ' re interacting with.
There is a fine line between cool and creepy. Do not cross it.
c / Use your playful tone of voice You’ ve got to have fun in your voice, and you can do that by practicing your voice tone.
You have to get your voice to convey that teasing, playful quality, and you have to be able to have fun doing this, and be animated when you do it. Playfullness equals animation.
So get your voice tone up or down a bit and be playful!
A sidenote on tone of voice: It’ s a known fact that both women and men are turned on by powerful voices. Most people, men and women alike, have soft voices.
But people are always turned on by whatever they’ re not. Women are turned on by men whose voices command attention and are delivered strongly and men are turn on by women with husky, slow, flirtatious voices that convey sexuality and playfulness.
So if you’ re soft or weak spoken or if people say“ What?” a lot when you speak, it means that your voice is too soft spoken. If your voice is too soft-spoken, then you are not going to create that powerful attraction you want to create with potential partners.
When you have a really strong, sensual voice, you create that powerful attraction immediately when you meet a man or woman because you have a commanding energy.
So if you are currently too soft-spoken, how do you change that?
One thing you need to do is record your voice and listen to it. When you hear it, ask yourself whether you would stop if someone spoke to you in that tone of voice.
Listen to your voice and to the way it sounds. Does it sound strong? Does it sound commanding? Does it sound clear? Are you able to hear and understand every word?