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Unique holiday gift- wrapping ideas Wrapping presents often feels like a chore, but it doesn’t have to. With a little creativity, you can make gift-wrapping fun — not to mention cheaper and more eco-friendly. Here are a few gift-wrapping ideas to inspire you. 1. Use recycled materials as gift-wrap. Wrap your gifts in recycled household items such as old newspapers and magazines, discarded maps, left over wallpaper and even gently worn clothes. With some extra effort, your presents will look just as beautiful, and far more interesting than if they were wrapped in plain old store-bought pa- per. 2. Go monochrome. For a sleek and stylish look, consider using shades of the same hue for wrapping paper, ribbon, and gift bags. Or, choose two or three colors to theme your gift-wrapping. Pick a combo other than red and green. 3. Add natural materials as decorations. Try wrapping presents in brown Kraft paper, tying them with string, and decorating the packages with sprigs of evergreen or dried fl owers. If you’re decking your house with holly or other seasonal greenery, save some of the foliage to use as em- bellishments for your wrapped gifts. 4. Try using furoshiki. Wrapping presents in patterned fabric, or furoshiki, is a Japanese prac- tice that offers an esthetically pleasing and eco- friendly alternative to wrapping paper. Fabric can be reused year after year, so you don’t need to buy and throw away copious amounts of wrap- ping paper each holiday season. How to stop trying to do it all and relax during the holidays For many people, the pressure of trying to cre- ate the “perfect” holiday can make the season seem daunting and stressful. If you want to relax and enjoy the holidays as much as your family this year, you need to resist some of the pressure. Here’s how to do it: • Say no. Around the holidays, it can feel like all your free moments are booked. Instead of ac- cepting every invitation you get, stay home on oc- casion. Use such evenings to make cookies and watch Christmas movies in your pyjamas, or or- der take out and eat in the living room. • Outsource. If you’re hosting dinner, instead of cooking a multi-course meal yourself, ask your guests to bring some of the dishes. Or better yet, have your entire event catered. You’ll enjoy your party that much more if you’re not in the kitchen the whole evening. Your guests will also be hap- py to spend more time with you. • Think quality not quantity. To relieve the stress of needing to buy the perfect gift for every- body on your list, organize the type of exchange with your family or group of friends in which ev- eryone only buys for one other person. Picking names from a hat tends to be the best way to ar- range these types of gift exchanges. Consider buying only one bigger gift a whole family can enjoy instead of a bunch of smaller presents. It’ll save you the time and effort nor- mally involved with buying multiple presents. This year, make a pact with yourself and your loved ones to keep Christmas simple. A lighter, more carefree holiday is the best way to ensure that everyone gets to relax and enjoy the spirit of the season. Tips for making a seating chart for holiday dinners When hosting a big family function like Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner, etiquette ex- perts suggest making a seating chart to help you determine where your guests should sit. Here are some tips to keep in mind as you put together your seating arrangements. • Seat the cook closest to the kitchen: if you’re Need Help With Your Social Security Disability Claim? We've Helped Thousands Get the Benefits They Deserve Start The Process Today! 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Senior Connections HJ.COM Senior doing the majority of the cooking, put yourself in the seat closest to the kitchen so you can easily go back and forth. • Separate long-time couples: seat them apart from one another so they can talk to new people. • Seat troublemakers near the host: if you have a relative who tends to drink too much, or enjoys bringing up controversial subjects, seat them near you so you can keep them in line. • Keep children together: consider giving chil- dren their own table so they can talk among themselves and get up to play when they’re done eating. • Seat extroverts and introverts beside each oth- er: it’s a good idea to put quiet guests next to talk- ative ones to limit awkward silences and make introverts feel more at ease. • Consider guests with disabilities: assign guests with physical disabilities a place at the table that’s easy for them to access. Seat hard - of- hearing guests near the end of the table where it will be quieter and easier for them to focus on nearby conversations. • Separate people who don’t get along: if you have relatives who can’t be civil to each other, or who have radically opposing political beliefs, seat them at opposite ends of the table. Almost all families comprise a dynamic mix of personalities. Thankfully, a seating chart will help ensure a harmonious holiday dinner where conversations keep rolling and confl ict is kept at bay. Connections Nov/Dec 2019 9