What happens when we want a girl and we have a boy?
Your heart wanted it to be a girl, but genetics decided otherwise. There are not a few mothers who want a girl and who feel disappointed when they learn that they will have a boy. Deception, yes, with all the lyrics ... but also shame. Because, unfortunately, the society in which we live places an excessive pressure on mothers , who must inevitably be sure from the moment one of everything related to their baby.
There may also be aspects related to the same story and parenting that are also put into play in this fervent desire to be of one sex or the other. Today we delve, then, into what happens when we want a girl and we have a boy.
Accept emotions
"Let it be healthy, the rest does not matter," say some mothers. And how beautiful to experience that genuine feeling that expresses an indifference to sex. But, let's be honest, most of us secretly keep a preference, albeit minimal, of the baby's sex . The difference is that some live without problem knowing that it will be, for example, male, while others cry in silence.
Then the disappointment is dyed another color and guilt appears from the depths to complete the picture. Will it be so negative to want one sex over the other? Is the child really hurt with those kinds of desires? Well, no mom is neither bad nor good for wanting one sex or another . Accepting the emotions that appear (added to the whirlwind that is already experienced during pregnancy) is a first process of self-love and, secondly, of love towards our child. It is likely that these emotions are showing us a light to delve into ourselves .