Awkward silence is something that is bound to happen to all of us. However, what do you do when you are faced with it? You look the other way or you stir up small talk? Where are useful tips to overcome this dreadful situation?
Say you opt for small talk here are possible topics you could use. Firstly, be yourself. There is no substitute for being original. Be your beautiful self. Do not force being someone you are not. Ralph Waldo Emerso says, “be silly, be honest, be kind.” People will appreciate you more for being real. If there is nothing to say, it is perfectly normal; a wise man once said nothing. If silence drags for longer than an minute than you need to break the ice. Just acknowledge the presence of the person you are with. Compliment them, discuss current affairs and or upcoming events, but if you can’t think of any fresh topics the weather should
be the last resort. Current affairs are always a great topics are always great topics to start of with and . adding your own opinion to brings much more flavour and depth to the topic and it help people understand your perspective better.
A few constructive pointers choose something in the space use that as a starting point and then allow the conversion to flow. Remember it’s a dialog and you’re not in a therapy session. Acknowledge the person you are communicating with. Always think on your feet, be witty and have charisma. No one wants to talk to a wet blanket.
In essence be bold and step out of your comfort zone. If you make a fool out of yourself laugh about and carry on. Awkward moments are wild cards you never can be prepared for. Respect you neighbours silence and acknowledge their presence.