Renton Woman Magazine November/December 2015 | Page 10

Overcoming the BLUES Most of the time, “the Blues” comes from something bothering you that you have not yet been able to identify, or you’re unconsciously trying to hide from something. This can be something current, such as problems in a relationship, or it can be something from the past, such as unresolved grief over the loss of a parent. According to Carole Lieberman M.D., one way to discover the issue and cure it is psychotherapy. Once you’ve identified the problem that’s been gnawing at you, like the princess finding the pea under her mattress, healing begins. While the therapy is progressing, it also helps to do comforting things like having a massage, or stop into your favorite store to have make-up done, something that makes you happy. Dr. Gabrielle Francis suggests Detox. Detoxing leads to a better mood through greater vitality. She also noted nourishment and hydration. Eat brainboosting foods such as wild cold-water fish, eggs, coconut oil, olive oil, organic meats, dark chocolate, and dark leafy greens. Avoid sugar, alcohol, refined 10 RENTON WOMAN MAGAZINE | carbohydrates, sodas, and processed foods, which cause hormone and blood sugar imbalances that impact your mood and brain function. Dehydration can heighten anxiety by causing mood swings, fatigue, tension, and difficulty concentrating. Drink 8–10 glasses of water daily to stay hydrated and limit caffeine to 1–2 cups daily. Too much caffeine increases cortisol, which can cause depression and anxiety. Aleya Littleton, MA, TAP suggests making self-care a priority. Feeling blue can be caused by a number of things, but it is perpetuated by how we think about and care for ourselves. When you are feeling down, it’s not the time to beat up on yourself further. It’s time to focus on building yourself up. Do this by eating healthy food, getting your hair done, spending time in the sunshine, cleaning up your room or putting a vase of flowers on your desk. Get your hands dirty. Not only does time in nature improve your mood, but there is a bacteria in soil that can help combat depression and make you more resilient to stress. Try planting some flowers outside your house, going on a hike and building a fort in the woods, or starting a window herb garden. Do something nice for someone else. Being generous and thoughtful to someone else creates feelings, connection, empathy, and universality - basically, relief from loneliness RentonWomanMagazine.com