saying you are buying a child..aagghhh but maybe you are. Dreams are sold everywhere all the time. Why not buy some?
The first drugs the doctor gives you is the to Switch off your ovulation that would naturally happen, then a couple of weeks later you get more drugs to stimulate lots of follicles to grow, instead of the normal 1.(now this part my wife had to go through because we were gonna use her eggs. You will hopefully get lots of eggs at the right size, then the “trigger” shot happens to ripen and mature the eggs…..eecks such a painful experience. Very invasive.
Needless to say 5digit figure later we were still not pregnant with no emotional support from the said Clinic. All they said was..” your embryos are not attaching to your wife’s body” better luck next time..bye!
What? WOW!! That’s it? Ok there goes that. Im done. This was too heartbreaking for me. And I had told a lot of people so they were ALL waiting to hear results. Most of them said “With so much money you really should demand your money back…” “how much? You got money ne?” But that’s really not the point is it?
Exactly a year later, we decided to try again. I couldn’t get past this broodiness and I was determined to try again. Every woman deserves a shot at motherhood….even if it’s just once.
We found our beloved fertility specialists at Zoe fertility and she was amazing. Gave us the emotional and mental support we needed and guided us through the donor sperm file and really made things so easy. After the insemination you have to wait 2 weeks before you can test for positive pregnancy vibes..lol by day 8 the anticipation was killing me. I remember waking up that morning and my top was making my boobs hurt…I went to the mirror and looked at them. They were so swollen and painful. i stood there thinking to myself OH Lawdy, I’m pregnant…now I’m not sure if Im ready…so scary..who’s gonna tell my mom..I really didn’t think this through..all these thoughts I didn’t even say a word to dear wife. Not yet. We will wait for 2 weeks as promised.
anticipation was killing me. I remember waking up that morning and my top was making my boobs hurt…I went to the mirror and looked at them. They were so swollen and painful. i stood there thinking to myself OH Lawdy, I’m pregnant…now I’m not sure if Im ready…so scary..who’s gonna tell my mom..I really didn’t think this through..all these thoughts I didn’t even say a word to dear wife. Not yet. We will wait for 2 weeks as promised.
I’m proud to say 4 years later…that was the BEST decision I have ever made. My beautiful boy was born 8 months later and he was perfect. Looked indian, then turned white, then back to black now he’s tuck on coloured…the rainbow boy..LOL. did I mention he’s got my smile?