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Women are in control as long as they withhold their gift from the man. As soon as she relents and gives him her gift, she now loses all control. Why, because of bonding. It's hard to fight and women have even killed their children because of men.

Look, God the Father created us. He knows what He is doing. Our problem? We are lost, broken, and confused. Again, only men can

stop abortion.

REGINA: How would you advise a young man considering marriage today? How should Catholic men express their unique role in relationships and marriages?

JERRY: First, learn your freakin’ faith. And stop listening to ignorance on the faith! This includes laity, priests, and bishops. Many of us are lost. And think we have it all together, but don't.

Second, leave your ego and

selfishness at the door. This is the

number one cause of divorce today.

Also, understand what God expects of

us as men.

We are the one ultimately responsible for the success or failure of our marriages and family. Why? Because of the natural order and the way God set it up.

Many men try and put all or most of the blame on their wives when things get tough. This is a rookie mistake and solves nothing.

What we must do is sacrifice our lives each and every day for our Beloved, and God. This is what we are called to do. Protect, Defend, and Serve.

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"What we must do is sacrifice our lives each and every day for our Beloved, and God. This is what we are called to do. Protect, Defend, and Serve."