Raw Ink January 2014 | Page 51

Reader’s Section Rise Above Circumstances How do most people respond to difficulty? First, they play the "blame game." They try to shift responsibility for the problem to make them feel better. But blaming others only results in broken relationships. While some people play the blame game with GOD, though God wants to hear our honest concerns, anger, and confusion about our trials, but He also wants us to trust Him. Focusing on the Lord and praising Him doesn't mean we pretend to enjoy tough times. Instead, we can honestly acknowledge He is in control of the situation and will guide our every step. But some believers are so hinged on GOD that they find out a simple choice that they just wallow in self-pity. A second way people respond to difficulty is by complaining. That may bring pity from others, but complaining only enhanc