Quincy Area Bridal Magazine January 2020 Issue 22 | Page 60

give to their clients creates a completely different
environment for the couple and guests. I so wish we would
have hired a videographer...after the day is over all you have
left are your photos, video (if you got one), and memories.
Memories fade and you can’t hear photos. What we create for
couples matters to us even more, because we’re giving them
what we didn’t have.
R: I would tell a couple to take time to get to know your
spouse’s love languages. Find out how your future spouse
best likes to communicate and how they feel loved and
appreciated. Then when you are planning things will go so
smoothly when making decisions.
4. What have you taught your spouse?
K: The importance of slowing down sometimes. Being able
to look around and enjoy the things around us that seem
ordinary, but aren’t.
R: I taught Kimber patience, ha-ha! My wife has been so
patient with my crazy entrepreneur life, and has allowed me
to teach her all about my passion for video. I taught her how
to start editing and she became our full-tiime editor.
5. What has your spouse taught you?
K: How to forgive quickly.
R: Kimber has taught me to slow down. When I met her
I was working full time at Best Buy, going to school for my
masters, working part time at a hotel setting up for events such
as weddings, and also working my wedding video business.
Kimber has helped me learn that other things besides work are
more important.
6. When are you happiest together?
K: Ryan and I are happiest together when we’re on the same
page. Our life is so full and sometimes going 90mph in 7
different directions. We have found that communication is the
heartbeat of our marriage. If we begin to feel short with each
other or notice a disconnect, one of us protects time in our
schedule for communicating. I need it more than he does, but
if we don’t do it, we both agree that our time together seems
off and neither of us like that.
R: We are happiest together when we are on the same page.
Communication is key in any relationship and ours is no
different. We also are very happy when we are driving down
the road being silly and singing along with WGCA or relaxing
watching a new TV series together.
7. It’s Friday night...what are you two up to?
K: Depends on what time of the year it is. If its May-October,
chances are we are either shooting a rehearsal dinner or
prepping for a wedding the next day. Any other time of the year
we could be going on a date night, watching Suits or Chuck,
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or making a plan for our weekend so we can make the most out
of it.
R: We are usually packing and prepping for a wedding the
next day. If we don’t have a wedding, we are watching Suits or
Chuck on Prime Video.
8. What have you learned about your spouse since you’ve
been married?
K: So many things!
1) He has two speeds: 100mph and sleep.
2) What a wide range of music he knows and loves.
3) How diverse his passions and abilities are..
4) How deep his love for me is.
R: I have learned what she desires, and that is for me to desire
one thing more than her. That thing is my relationship with
Jesus. Kimber wants to live her life for Jesus and I want to help
her do that.
9. Would you ever consider renewing your vows?
K: Absolutely!! We’ve talked about who our videographer will
be! LOL. I can’t wait to do this someday in the future. I get
teary eyed thinking about it.
R: Totally! We didn’t have a wedding video, I know... we are
videographers and didn’t have one. We were so concerned
about budget and we cut it. We want to do a vow renewal and
hire our favorite filmmakers Pen Weddings or The Film Poets
to capture it.
10. What advice would you give a soon-to-be husband?
K: Every woman is unique. Get to know yours. Deeply.
Get a PhD in her. Study it all. Her big dreams and her little
preferences. She wants to be fully known and fully loved by
you. Become her best friend and never stop striving for more.
R: I would tell a soon to be husband to be patient and be
involved with wedding planning. It is a stressful thing for your
bride and you need to be her support.