26 Pure Love
question his past mistakes . Alas ! Not only has one made mistakes but one has also suffered tremendously .
Where There Are Faults Or Expectations Love Does Not Exist
The world is perplexed because it believes that infatuation and attraction is love . All this is because of a man ’ s need for a woman and a woman ’ s need for a man . When these needs are not met , there are profuse complaints from the inner working components , the mind , chit , intellect and ego . No one belongs to anyone in this world , even for a minute . This has always been the case and it always will be . This would become evident , if a father were to scold his son for an hour . The son would retaliate and even threaten to sue for his share of the inheritance . Only a Gnani Purush loves you unconditionally . He alone is truly yours .
So do not look for love in this world because there is no such thing as love in it . Love cannot be found anywhere except in a Gnani Purush . Everywhere else love disappears and the quarrels start . That is not called love , it is all infatuation and attraction , but people refer to it as love . People are always contradicting themselves ! Quarrels cannot be the result of love . Love means you do not see faults in others .
With love one would never see the fault of the wife or the children throughout his life . In love , one never sees any faults at all . Just look at how people find faults with each other . ‘ You are like that .’ ‘ No , you are like that .’ The world has not seen even an iota of love . All this is infatuation and attraction of illusion .
Wherever there is infatuation and attraction , accusations will occur for sure . That is the nature of infatuation and attraction . Accusations like , ‘ you are like this and you are like that .’ And the spouse will retort , ‘ you are like that , not me .’ Infatuation