Pure Love
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watching a movie. If someone dies in the movie, they start
crying also.
Questioner: So why can he not be freed from the
infatuation and attraction for his dead wife?
Dadashri: One cannot be freed. The problem was created
with him believing, ‘She is mine, she is mine.’ Now by reciting,
‘She is not mine, she is not mine,’ the attachment will dissolve.
The threads that were wound have to be unwound.
Differences In Opinions And Love
Do you have differences of opinion with your wife?
Questioner: How can a couple be called husband and
wife without these differences?
Dadashri: Is that so? Is that the rule? Is it written
somewhere that they cannot be called husband and wife if there
are no differences of opinion between them? Are there not
some differences in opinion?
Questioner: Yes.
Dadashri: Then does the husband-wife relationship not
keep diminishing with increasing differences of opinions?
Questioner: Love keeps on increasing.
Dadashri: As love increases, does the difference in
opinion not decrease?
Questioner: As the differences in opinions increase, and
as the quarreling increases, so does love.
Dadashri: Yes. It is not love but infatuation and attraction
that increases. This world has not seen love. Love is very different
from infatuation and attraction. You can see love as you are
talking to me. Even if you were to get angry with me, you would