Pure Love 5
that you are behaving like a person without any sense , this would be the end of your love . If you were to say the same thing to a Gnani Purush several times over , he would not be affected . His love for you would remain the same .
Real love is that which does not have any abhorrence behind it . How can it be called love when there is abhorrence associated with it ? Love should be unwavering , unchanging .
Absolute Self Is Love Questioner : So real love does not increase or decrease .
Dadashri : Real love does not increase or decrease . Love between two people will decrease if one becomes angry with the other and they both start to quarrel . Their love will increase once again , when one gives flowers to the other .
Questioner : In the worldly affairs it is bound to increase and decrease . That is just the way it is .
Dadashri : People ’ s love increases and decreases throughout the day ! It fluctuates with their children , their relatives and even for themselves . When they look at themselves in the mirror , they think they look good one moment and the next time they look , they are displeased . All this happens because one does not realize one ’ s own responsibility . How tremendous that responsibility is !
Questioner : That is why people are told , ‘ love one another , love one another .’
Dadashri : But it is not even love to begin with . Such talks are from the worldly perspective . Who can call this love ? The love that increases and decreases is nothing but infatuation and attraction . The world has never seen real love . My love is real love , which is why it affects people . People benefit from it ; otherwise it would be of no use to anyone ! Whenever there is a presence of the Lord or a Gnani Purush in this world , people