Pinpoints Spring 2019 | Page 6

Alex Bella Guido Cade Chuck la mia famiglia By Guido Baldecchi, Father of Chuck Baldecchi If there is one equation I like most, it is Baldecchi = Family. Charles grew up with three older siblings and a village of cousins. All were close, spent summers and holidays together at the family vacation home in Sherwood Forest on the Severn River in Maryland. Here, a summer camp of many generations where all youngsters could take part and excel, was the activity. We spent the school year at the family home in Henderson, North Carolina, where I worked in the family textile business. All friends and family were welcome in our home there, and at one time or another, all came. Life changed when Charles’s mother died. His siblings were away in North Carolina colleges. He was young and alone. There was no other option but to send him to boarding school. As it happened, later I would also leave Henderson. Episcopal High School in Virginia had always been spoken of highly as a place of nurturing kindness, where the character of the boy was more important than his SAT score. Charles found a new family there, with a different environment, one that gently demanded discipline with honor and a passion to excel. With new boys, he was able to use the bonding skills that had Above: The Baldecchi family, clockwise from front center; Mrs. Stu Baldecchi, Chuck, Jay, Mr. Guido Baldecchi, Danny, Pam 4 developed naturally. His strong sense of compassion was encouraged with success in leadership. Later, he completed four years at Denison University in Ohio. He then attended St. John’s College in Annapolis, on the Severn River, close to the summer home. At St. John’s, the curriculum was the 200 Great Books of western civilization. This was humanism. Where you learned “not the best answer, but the better questions.” His first teaching assignment was at the Asheville School in North Carolina. Here he met the lovely Erin Garden, who taught and lived in Asheville. Was it love at first sight? Well, the “better question” was asking Erin Garden to marry him. Maybe that became the transition from Charles to Chuck. Charles’s instinct for education took him to where he is now, The Lexington School, and that was a fine