Question: Hi Becca, my name is June daughter’s name is Molly and she’s two-years-old. She always has trouble separating from me, it’s mostly when I drop her at daycare. She will grasp onto me and cry, she doesn't want me to leave and I’m not sure how to handle it anymore.
Answer: Hi June, first of all don’t worry, this is very normal in children of Molly’s age. The reason she is doing this is most likely because she is still unaware that you’re coming back, it’s a hard concept for her head to grasp, that you’re not leaving her forever. So, don’t pry her away from you but try to talk to her first, calm her down. Reassuring her you will be back is very important, the idea of you saying you’ll be back is important for her to have as you leave. When you come back to get her, give her attention for a few minutes, so that she understands when you leave and come back she will be acknowledged and respected. Overall she should grow out of this stage as long as you handle these situations properly now, so reassuring her, calming her down and when you come back for her spend some time with her. Good luck!