FROM THE VOLUSIA COUNTY SCHOOL BOARD
tradition? If you do not have one, start one this year
and involve your children.
Children love listening to their parents and other
favorite adults explain things. Most of the time, children
hear adults telling them what to do or to stop doing
something. So when children hear an adult with a
soothing voice engaging, not threatening them, they
are all ears.
W
ow! December is already here and so is the
stress. The days always seem to move so
quickly through this month. This could be because the
calendar is crowded with school events to attend,
social activities with friends and business associates,
family obligations, and dates for travel.
Yes, stress during the holidays is inevitable. As
parents, we need to remember adult stress affects our
children, too. One of the things parents can do to help
themselves is talk about upcoming events with their
children. When possible, give your children choices
about what they prefer to do on specific holiday
events. Sometimes just talking about things instead of
just holding everything in is a great stress reliever.
After all, this is the season to enjoy and embrace
holiday festivities and your family traditions. Speaking
of family traditions, parents need to make sure they
explain to their children the meaning of the word
tradition. What was the origin for your family’s holiday
Indeed, this is an eager time for children to learn
about the uniqueness of each holiday. As they grow
older, they need to broaden their understanding and
contribution. Whether it is the seasonal food, the
decorations, the religious observations, the music,
which fills the air, or the gifts we share, the holiday
season is a special time.
Breaking News! Parents are not perfect. That’s right.
Especially during stressful times, we make mistakes, so
remember, things do not matter, people do and the
people, who matter the most, are the ones you love
and the ones who love you.
So, as you count down 2019, slow your pace and take
a few deep breaths. Reduce your stress this holiday
season by rejoicing in the time you have with family
and friends. Smile often and enjoy every day!
CARL PERSIS
CHAIR, VOLUSIA COUNTY SCHOOL BOARD
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