Happy & Successful Kids:
PERSPECTIVE TAKING—WALK A WHILE IN MY SHOES
By Jan Pierce, M.Ed.
O
ne of the most important skills we can teach
our children is to see another person’s point of
view. If we’re honest, we’ll acknowledge it’s
difficult for us grown-ups to do that very thing. It’s hard
trying to imagine what another person is thinking or
feeling. It’s not always pleasant to give another person
what they want or need. How do we respond when
we disagree?
But those children who learn to respect another’s
perspective and who choose to honor another person’s
desires will be healthier, happier and more successful
in life. Learning when and how to move beyond their
own welfare and reach out to another person with
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understanding is an attainable goal for young children.
When we teach lifeskills, we’re teaching children to
take charge of their own behaviors and attitudes.
We’re giving them tools to use as they learn and
grow and develop their unique personalities in our
complex world. How will they cope with life choices,
relationships and challenges?
Here’s some good news for parents! There are simple
everyday activities to add to daily routines that will
build these important skills. Let’s take a closer look at
Perspective Taking.