I don ' t believe that children can develop in a healthy way unless they feel that they have value apart from anything they own or any skill that they learn. They need to feel they enhance the life of someone else, that they are needed. Who, better than parents, can let them know that?-Fred Rogers
THE ROLE OF THE PARENT
Your role matters more than any coach or club owner’ s. You’ re shaping the person your child will become— and no one knows them better than you. Here are a few ways to stay their strongest supporter:
Talk about goals. Some athletes dream of cheering in college or dancing professionally. Others are here just for fun. Knowing what your child wants helps you guide them— whether through private lessons, extra classes, or simply encouraging friendships, camps and master classes. Their goals may differ from yours, so listen closely and support what drives them.
Stay aware. Adolescents face real pressures. Be mindful of changes in mood, behavior or social media activity— these can be early signs of poor body image, mental health struggles, or abuse. Your club has access to resources through USASF on athlete safety, nutrition and injury prevention— don’ t hesitate to ask.
Keep encouraging. Support your child not just as an athlete, but as a whole person. Your involvement is essential— not just to their success in the sport, but in life. Clubs know that behind every great athlete is an even greater support system.
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