With a far greater number of individuals managing to have successful lives and parent well who had been in care, maybe we should not permit the use of past experience to become an excuse for poor personal management. We all know the difference between right and wrong so are we now accepting that ownership of ones behaviour is now a thing of the past?
Ask yourself...
- Are all negative experiences
crippling your life?
- Have you lost sight of the future?
- Do you make repeated mistakes?
- Are you seeking to punish rather
than forgive?
- Are others encouraging you to seek
compensation when you would rather
just move on?
The solution is to seek a Life coach rather than a counselor to help you move forward in life. Clear you thoughts and build inner strength and value yourself. If you still decide to deal with the past you will do so with a far better clarity than before and you will do so not from the victim standpoint but the survivor. Yes make the ministry accountable if you wish but first be sure you are not further broken as a result. Invest in yourself because your worth it.