Bachelorette Party
In my experience this can either be smooth sailing or a
bit bumpy but the better organized you are around the
planning of the pre-wedding bash the better. Once again
another pow wow with the wedding party is in order.
Gather your thoughts together in terms of where and
when this party will be getting started and assign tasks
to everyone involved. The bigger the bash the more
planning of course. Dinner reservations, spa
appointments and the logistics of how the day will flow
can be sent via email after you have determined your
plans. Set a firm deadline for everyone to RSVP as well.
The Big Day
When the wedding day arrives it could go either way for
the bride. She may go into panic mode or be sipping
mimosas like she’s already on her honeymoon.
Regardless the maid of honor is there to troubleshoot,
be sure the bride is eating and to bustle the train for
easy dance moves. Understanding the balance between
helping in the order of things and being sure you still
celebrate is also key. Don’t forget, you are at a party you
had a big hand in planning.
Emotional Support
Of course, the most important thing (besides planning
an amazing bridal shower and bachelorette party) is that
you are a shoulder to cry on, a friend who is there to
listen and one that is exceedingly patient. Remember
that you are there to help make her day perfect and
hopefully go off without a hitch. And, when you are not
sure you can take another phone call, pull out that
organizer and do a countdown to the wedding.
Written by - Lauren Silveira of Organized For Life
www.organizedforlife.net
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